Sub update...

So My sub leaves to go serve Master Sam overseas in a disturbingly short time 2.5 months. He will be gone 1-2 years. That is understandably disturbing for many reasons. One of the most trivial of the reasons is that it will leave Me without My boy. Though W/we have been together for over a half a year I know that it will soon be suspended and he will be gone doing whatever it is that he has to do in service to the All Powerful Master Sam.

I have been asked a fair few times what that means for U/us. It sucks but it is what it is. I will continue to retain him as My submissive. Of course it will be in name and not in deed. I will send him off with some instructions, My well wishes and a collar in the form of a religious symbol. I will have his real collar waiting when he returns home. I plan to write him while he is gone. But that is really then end of it. he won’t be calling Me from overseas. That time needs to go to his wife and kids. Nor do I think he is the type to sit down with pen and paper. So that is pretty much it. How sad. Just when W/we are starting to build some momentum.

Though he is defiantly getting the worse end of the deal I am still going to be shortly out a sub. As I have explained to My sub that he will retain the alpha position (I won’t give his job away while he is serving overseas) I will be seeking another submissive when he is gone. he is disappointed but understands. If he was going to be gone a matter of months to a year I’m not sure I would but in all likelihood he will be there 2 years straight. I am not sure I could keep My dominance in check that long. I’d end up trying to Top all my friends and… wait… I do that, don’t I? ;) Plus with 2 more years under My belt in full time Doming can only help O/our relationship when he returns.

So that’s the skinny on the situation and the reason I check the “It’s Complicated” box on Fetlife.