Sub Update

It’s been a while since I have really talked about my sub. Why? Because he is off being Uncle Sam’s bitch instead of mine.

Pout.

I keep being asked what are we doing in regards to O/our D/s while he is gone. So I will go ahead and answer that here and now. I suggested putting it on ice while he was gone. He however did not want that and asked me most profusely that W/we keep going in whatever capacity that W/we could. Which left Me with a quandary. Well he is only gone for a month right now and he has his cell phone so we are still in daily contact but when he left I did not know if he would be able to contact me at all. So he was sent away with some directives.

See My boy admitted to me right up front he has 2 problems that he is attempting to work on. 1. drinking. When he is bored he wants to drink. Which is why he is best when he is busy busy busy. 2. Anger. When he gets frustrated he will sometimes go straight to anger as I have already recounted on this blog. Especially if he feels unjustly accused of something or if he is told he is wrong when he knows he is not. Oh and then there is number 3. which was being naked but I have since fixed that. Anywho… Drinking is easy enough to limit when you are on an Army Base training for deployment. But he was sent with limits on how much he could drink if he had the opportunity. The other is to work on controlling his anger. Both things can be accomplished only on his own and he is on his honor to tell me how he is doing with both. He keeps me informed when he is feeling the mounting pressure that leads to an angerball. Once he has identified he can redirect that energy in another way, or simply recall that he is not allowed to get angry with his superiors or brothers in arms. This helps him and it is a great exercise of endurance. He has had to keep this up for almost a month now. I think he is making progress.

As his trust grows with me he is opening up other aspects that he was too afraid to tell me before. Desires and urges he was afraid and ashamed to tell me about. A couple of hard limits he had have since not only softened but indeed evaporated. It’s been really a fantastic experience which I would not have envisioned when he was leaving 3 weeks ago.

This is the kind of thing that will only help when he is overseas where he will be far beyond My reach for a whole year.