I know. I have been MIA. How have you managed to get along with out Me? What? Pretty easily? Well screw you too! Kidding of course. sort of!

In any case.. Hello!! It's been a while! Life got busy. Really busy! Between Gma in TX and everything else I have been fairly rushed off My feet. But it looks like I have a small break between events so I will update.

Gma is doing better. What can I say, she's a trooper. Strokes, heart Attacks, nothing slows her down. She is still as sassy as ever which is wonderful. Few people could wistand what her body has been dealing out lately and still remain mostly the same. Go gma!

Friday My sub deployed. It was a hard day. A lot going on in the regular world and then add that on top in My D/s world... well it all ended up making Lana rather sad Friday. Though it isn't as bad as it will be in a month. Right now he is at a super secret base getting ready to be shipped over seas. He will be there till the begining of August. So in this time I can still keep in sporadic communication with him. I miss him. I want him back. I hate sharing with Master Sam. Thank you much for the well wishes which have coming flooding in. he is doing well. As well as can be expected in any case. he also appreciates the notes of support that I have passed on to him.

I ended up going to the PD Friday. Was exausted and the last thing I wanted to do was get back into the car after all the driving I had been doing but at the last minute I decided to go down and say Hi. I am glad I did. I could have stayed home and eaten a pint of ice cream like I had planned and thought about My boy going off to war. But it seemed more prudent to go and see My extended kink family (yes, that means you!). As always I was greeting with warm wishes, great hugs (Cheri I'm looking at you!) and good conversation. I only stayed about an hour but it was the boost I needed.

Sat I went to the AIS Champagne Room takeover party. I ended up taking My mom's best friend, Cindy. Yes, My minister Mom's bff. Why? I hear you asking. Well Cindy is kink curious. I am very out about My lifestyle. She has asked Me questions about it for the past year or so but she finally told Me she was interested in seeing what it was about for herself. I was a little hesitant at first (see above Mom's bff comment)so I asked her what her interest in kink was. She said she didn't know. I asked her what she wanted to see/try. She said she didn't know. I asked her what appealed to her about the lifestyle. She said she didn't know. But then she said something that made Me decide that I would take her. She said "I've been told my whole life what I want. I'm 52 and I think it's time to decide what I want for myself." So I got her hip to fetlife. When the lovely Cheri reminded Me of the party I offered Cindy to go with Me. She did. And she had a good time. As did I. I got to play with a good friend and make her purr like a sated cat which was lovely. Had another friend give Me a quick rub down which was fun. There is something about being nearly naked (I had on My FAVORITE frilly butt panties) under the stars that is absolutely exhilerating! Master Chris, pupslave Keith, I will be invading your nude beach at some point!!!! So good times were had. And Cindy has decided that she is kinky! Woot!

Sunday I was totalled. I didn't get to sleep til 5am. My kid had a sleep over so little girls woke up at 6:30. which means, I was up. Ended up dropping the kid off at the lake with My parents and went home to take a nap. Couldn't sleep and got an offer of a massage from another friend. I took him up on it and trained him a little on how to give a good massage. I then got him hip to some of the Lana movie collection. No not those movies, perv!!! But the other goodness that Lana has on Dvd. So it was a nice day. Though he needs more work on his masssage technique. I think maybe 2 training sessions a week and he will be a top notch massuer. Or maybe I just want more massages. No, that can't be it. I am being selfless by helping him perfect his technique. Ya. that's it. :) Also congrats Mason on finding a job worth having!

So that is the update thus far. I head to Chicago this weekend which will be more fun than drowning a bag full of kittens. :)