Anniversary Update

My anniversary fast approaches. I had planned to celebrate in Vegas however I am sure you are familiar with any of the many idioms involving plans. The universe laughed right in My face when I announced My plans. It then decided to knock Me down a bit and dropped My anniversary budget to about $50. Which isn’t much considering it’s our 10th anniversary as well as his 36th birthday (same day). If you have ever been to a shin-dig I have planned you know I tend to go all out. What to do? What to do? Luckily I am fantastic and refuse to be defeated by trivial things like having a small budget and the inability to go anywhere special.

I sat down and gave it a good long think. What is it I want from My anniversary and My husband’s birthday. I decided I wanted 5 things.

1. Renewal of our contract/vows
2. Intimacy
3. To have some fun
4. LOTS OF SEX
5. to be naked as much as possible

Those are the 5 things that mean the most to Me. I asked My husband to make the same list. His went:

1. renew our contract/vows
2. Sex
3. Sex
4. Sex
5. Sex

Which made me laugh. So we talked it out. Without realizing it We have spent every anniversary with other people. First at our wedding where We were knee deep in relatives most of the time. Then on our 5 year when we renewed our vows in front of our family and friends. The 5 year also included a bachelorette party the night before and an after party later on the date of the renewal. We haven’t really spent an anniversary just on our own. Problem solved.

This year We are going to stay home. We are dropping our kid off with My mother, then going home where we will undress each other just inside the door. From that point on We will be naked until we have to get dressed 4 days later when My mom drops the kid off. That’s right. It’s going to be a 4 day Fuck-Fest!!! I haven’t had a good old fashioned Fuckfest in a long while. Marathon screwing sounds absolutely perfect to Me (and him).

That, of course, still leaves the renewal of Our contract/vows. I am really excited about this part. We are going to renew our vows to each other while We are making love. While he is inside of Me we are going to look into each others’ eyes and tell each other what we mean to the other and what we vow for the next 5 years.

I am absolutely thrilled about the turn of events now! This is so much more exciting that a trip where I would be penny pinching and in a strange environment. Don’t get Me wrong. We are still hitting Vegas for one of these renewals. But this seems absolutely right for what we both want now. The $50 budget is going to go towards buying some fresh fruit and chocolate for desserts, a few steaks, some yummies, a bottle of champagne and a few movies to watch if We end up needing a break from all the sex.

I love My husband so much. It doesn’t feel like 10 years. I am very, very lucky.